by Kody B
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13 Apr, 2021
I have struggled with anxiety since I was a child, even when I was in primary school I would worry about absolutely everything – even things I had done years prior. However, as I grew older, my anxiety got better. But then I noticed that as my school years got more serious, I found my anxiety was increasing. By the time I had reached year eleven and was preparing to take my GCSEs, my anxiety was through the roof, depression had also started creeping in. But still, I pushed through, I viewed GCSEs as my priority. I had to get these, so I could get A-levels, so I could go to university. I have listed some coping methods for anxiety and depression as these are typically the most common in students but may work for other mental illnesses as well. Now, some of these might not work for you and that is okay. Everybody is different, no one is the same. Some ways that you may find help with dealing with mental illness at school is sticking to a timetable. Sticking to a timetable can help implement a routine which in turn can reduce feelings of anxiety as there is no ‘unknown’ in your day. However, it is important to remember that there may still be some unknowns to your day, and that’s okay. It’s also okay if this method does not work for you. If you are suffering from anxiety, here are some tips, tricks, and methods that I do/have been recommended: Control your breathing. The one I have been told to try is the breathe in for four seconds, hold it until seven and then out for eight. Although I find this one quite difficult, but the method I use the most is called ‘square breathing’ you look at a square and slowly breathe in as you follow the top of the square, then breathe out as you follow round down the other side, then breathe in as you follow along the bottom of the square, breathe out as you follow up of the next side, and repeat. Whilst doing this method, you don’t have to look at a square, quite often I close my eyes and imagine one. Doodle . Focusing on doodling helps take your mind off what is worrying you. During school, I would carry a notebook with me and doodle whenever I felt anxious, I found that it really helped me. Folding paper. Don’t worry if you can’t fold some swans or boats or whatever. But just folding paper that you focus on completely can help take your mind off your worries. Obviously, if you fancy making a swan, then go right ahead, but don’t worry if you can’t, I can’t either. Maths. Simple maths, for example you could choose four random numbers, order them by size, multiply them, or subtract them- just distract yourself. That’s what these techniques are all about, taking your mind of what you are worried about. Fiddle with something small. Some people that I know carry guitar picks in their pockets, or hair clips/pins, that way if you are at school, teachers won’t really notice something you can keep in your pocket, that way you can channel your nervous energy into something that is unseen and therefore won’t cause more attention. It is also important to understand that if your mind is not in a good place, you will most likely be thinking irrationally. Sometimes, the best thing (for me at least) to do at that moment in time is to distract yourself and ignore any irrational thoughts. For me, distracting myself can be doodling, watching a funny tv show on Netflix, watching YouTube, going on social media , just getting out of my head. It’s important as well to try to focus on the positives – I know that this is a cliché saying, but trying to get into a positive and happy mindset will help. I understand that that is easier said than done for the majority of the time, but it’s always worth a shot to improve your Mindspace. People who haven’t had a mental illness will most likely not understand mental illness – and will most likely say things that are ignorant. If they say something about it, just remember that they most likely don’t understand what you are going through, so let it go over your head. Sometimes going to the doctors and informing them can help, doctors are usually very good with mental illness and will give you coping mechanisms, refer you to a counsellor or therapists if that is what you would like, or they may give you medication to help. It’s important to talk to someone about how your feeling, this doesn’t have to be a doctor, it could be friends, family, teachers, tutors, anyone who you feel you can trust. It’s not healthy to let your feelings bottle up. And if you need a break from studying, it’s okay. It’s okay to have a day or two where you don’t do anything. Sometimes we need to recharge. Kody is a Criminology Undergraduate Student who shares study tips and provides a safe space for other students on his instagram @Criminologystudies